Snack-Size Good News
Last Sunday, I was gifted the trust of the pulpit at First Christian Church in El Reno. This is a jubilee year for the congregation as they celebrate 135 years of ministry in September. On May 4th (be with you) they celebrated the 25th anniversary of their Associate Pastor’s service with the congregation. The text for the day was John 21:1-19. Here is a lightly edited version of my words.
Good morning, disciples.
It is a great day to gather for worship as we continue to meet Jesus in unexpected places along a journey in faith. Generations of seekers, skeptics, and believers have benefited from this congregation’s proclamation and practice of the good news of God. If you live in or around El Reno and are visiting today in-person or in the digital sanctuary come back and get involved in this congregation witness of faith.
Disciples, you continue to show people that the Lord’s mercies never cease, that the Lord’s mercies are new every morning, that the Lord’s faithfulness extends beyond our ability to see in a mirror dimly, and that followers of Jesus do Jesus-like things.
Thank you for being a voice of gospel from this corner of El Reno for your community and beyond your doorsteps into our fragmented world. Your siblings in faith around the Region and throughout the denomination are grateful for your example of servant leadership and faithfulness as we claim the covenant: Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Oklahoma.
Colton, Tara, and elders, thank you for gifting me the trust of the pulpit today as we recognize a ministry milestone in this year of jubilee.
Disciples, as your spirit is able, please join me in a moment of prayer. Open our ears and hearts, O God, so that our meditations, words, and living reflect our faith in You, who creates, redeems, and sustains all creation and our lives. Amen.
Buckle up. Here we go.
When I think of Tara’s twenty-five years of ministry here in El Reno, I remember some words by the 20th-century theologian Henri Nouwen. He wrote, “the compassionate life is mostly hidden in the ordinariness of everyday living.”1
Tara, you and this congregation have have cast a large net in El Reno and beyond in the ordinariness of everyday living:
Blessing Baskets.
Lunch Bunch.
Snack Bags.
Logos.
Youth Group.
Bereavement meals.
Mission Camp.
International Affairs Seminar.
Summer Camp.
VBS.
Intersections.
Mission Trips.
Tara, you’ve offered teaching, pastoral care, and preaching.
You are also a proud parent, a spouse, and a caregiver to your family.
And, you usually have that backpack full of all kinds of things and snacks.2 You’ve watched and taken seriously the science that children and youth, anyone, can’t do their best work or be the best version of themselves when they are hungry or thirsty.
Physically or spiritually hungry.
Physically or spiritually thirsty.
Along with the power bars and peanut butter crackers, you carry around snack-size good news: supportive prayers and hugs, a problem-solving eye, a “let’s get on with it” approach with some patience, sometimes, and a servant’s heart that knows it needs boundaries, but there is still so much more to do.
Twenty-five years. It is a rare thing these days for a commissioned pastor or ordained minister to walk alongside, argue with, thumb wrestle with, pray for, grieve, and celebrate with a congregation for that long. You, your family, and this congregation have grown up together, and there is still so much waiting to see and do in front of you.3
Disciples, there is still so much gospel to be and do waiting in front of you. I think that is what this fireside breakfast chat with Jesus is all about. He has shown Peter and the others another way. They’ve walked it with him. Lived it. It’s their turn to lead. Their turn to be an example, but you have to choose it. You have to choose it every day. Feed, Tend. Feed.
There is an old story. An itinerant preacher arrives at church on Sunday to find only one person attending worship. He says to the man, “Good Morning. We’ll wait a bit longer, but if there are just the two of us, why don’t we sing a hymn, have prayer, share communion, and skip the sermon. What do you say?”
The man said, “Well, preacher, if I go down to feed my cattle and just one shows up, I feed him. I don’t turn him away hungry.”
So, the preacher led the service and gave a long sermon on God’s salvation. He preached all over the bible, raised his voice, and cursed the devil for 90 minutes. After worship, he asked the man what he thought of the sermon. The man said, “Preacher, it was good, but like I said, if only one cow shows up, I don’t turn the one away unfed. But, I don’t dump the whole bucket.”4
Feed. Tend. Feed.
There is something unique about the Gospel of John and the Gospel of Mark. The author of Mark creates the original prequel about Jesus. It is an outline of the life and times of Jesus of Nazareth. The author of John is overtly weaving a theological parable about Jesus’s story, his identity, and a person’s life after meeting Jesus in a novel about God’s redemption. The gospel writers have different motivations, but they have something in common. Mark and John just end without any hint as to what happens to the characters. Go back and look.
Mark ends with the women fleeing in fear from the tomb, telling no one, and then briefly telling Peter and everyone around him what Jesus had commanded (Mark 16:8). Most New Testaments add the heading “the longer ending of Mark,” and it includes more appearances, commissioning disciples, and Jesus’ ascension.
The writer of John gives us a nice summation: “Now Jesus did many other signs in the presence of his disciples, which are not written in this book. But, these are written so that you may come to believe or may continue to believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and through that believing you may have life in his name.” (John 20:30-31) And then, our reading for today.
So, like some sermons you’ve heard during life, Mark and John have two endings. Scholars refer to this as the epilogue. It’s the clean-up of storylines to make for a better ending or sending. I know a minister who likes to say at the end of a sermon, “And one more thing,” as the congregation reaches for their hymnal.
In the synoptic gospels, Peter denies knowing Jesus. This fireside chat with Jesus and the Disciples includes callbacks to intimate community, the abundance of fish and wine, and the feeding of 5000 with some snack-size bites. In John’s parable, Peter denies being a disciple of Jesus. That’s more than semantics—more than denying a belief or knowing someone.
Being a disciple, a follower includes living a particular way. Doing specific kinds of things. “You are not also one of his disciples, are you?” Peter responds, “I am not.” Even though Jesus has yet to be sentenced, being associated with him could get Peter, the disciple whom Jesus loved, or any of the disciples into trouble with the powers that be. None of them were willing to take that risk, even if it was “good trouble.”5 After all they had been through, the rock crumbles, and Peter denies his identity as a disciple of Jesus.
All of us, no matter our age, station in life, or maturity in faith, struggle with being a disciple of Jesus every day because we know deep down in the depths of our hearts that disciples of Jesus do Jesus-like things, and they believe.
As this decade unfolds into the next, I think that may be a way we distinguish between the essentials of unity, the non-essentials of liberty, and the charity followers of Jesus practice and proclaim.
In three little snack-size “Do you love me” moments, Jesus invites Peter to reclaim his discipleship, his identity, and a responsibility to feed, tend, and feed young ones and mature ones – and that includes himself.
Dr. Seuss says it like this.
On and on you will hike.
And I now you’ll hike far
and face up to your problems
whatever they are.
You’ll get mixed up of course,
as you already know.
You’ll get mixed up
with many strange birds as you go.
So be sure when you step.
Step with care and great tact
and remember that Life’s
A Great Balancing Act.
Just never forget to be dexterous and deft.
And never mix up your right foot with your left.6
One biblical commentator describes this fish story in John like this: “And so, Jesus shows up on that shore, hosts a meal one more time, and tells Peter, tells us, ‘I believe in you. I know who you are and I love you. And yes, you are exactly the disciple I need, the disciple the world needs, for God to the world.’”7
Disciples, remember that God’s grace and peace are not simply abstract concepts. You have experienced God’s grace and peace in your discipleship and in your experience of the risen Christ. God’s compassion and the way of Jesus are present in this world through your faith and actions. Your individual and collective efforts as a congregation have the power to transform the world around you, even if it is just for a moment. I still want to believe that a moment might be, can be, enough.
Even when you are not sure who is my neighbor, it’s the way you feed, tend, and feed your neighbors.
It’s the way you deal with ones that call you an enemy.
It’s the way you feed, tend, and feed one another.
Sometimes, you can sense it.
Sometimes, you can see it.
Usually, you don’t know how kindness, a supportive word, a question, or an action, small or large, can alter the trajectory of a person’s day, week, or life. And it may take a while to know how that moment affected you.
Jesus of Nazareth met people where they were in life’s journey:
the poor and the rich,
the powerful and the powerless,
the healthy and infected,
the in-group and the outcast.
His living demonstrated that old saying, “Preach the gospel. When necessary, use words.”
His living reminded people to: “Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Sometimes, that involves simply sharing a snack, offering a listening ear, giving a dollar, or providing coins at the laundromat. Other times, with larger systems, it may require more reflection, more risk, and more intentional action. That’s the object of that old confession, “Forgive me for the things I have done and left undone.” Within a community of believers, we hold one another accountable for the essentials and non-essentials in a spirit of charity.
And, one more thing.
Each morning, I receive a thought from a marketing guru that begins my day wondering. Last week, this thought arrived. “The stories we tell are a choice. Reciting facts lets us off the hook, but telling a true story that causes change is a powerful responsibility.”8
There are so many things Jesus is still doing through you, First Christian Church El Reno. Disciples, the epilogue of Jesus’s story about the good news of God goes on, and you contribute a verse. You don’t have to dump the whole bucket. Let your living be snack-size good news.
- Cf. Henri Nouwen, Here and Now: Living in the Spirit, p 103. ↩︎
- Youth group members begin taking snacks to Tara. ↩︎
- Hat tip Jimmy Buffett for this phrase loosely based on the lyric, “There’s too much to see waiting in front of me and I don’t think I can go wrong.” from “Changes in Latitude, Changes in Attitude” 1977. ↩︎
- Loyal Jones and Billy Edd Wheeler, Laughing in Appalachia: Southern Mountain Humor. August House (Little Rock) 1987. p 36-7. ↩︎
- A phrase used often by Rep. John Lewis (February 21, 1940 – July 17, 2020). He served Georgia’s 5th Congressional District and was part of the Civil Rights Movement. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Lewis ↩︎
- Dr. Seuss, Oh, the Places You’ll Go! Random House (New York) 1990. ↩︎
- Karoline Lewis, “Do You Love Me?” Dear Working Preacher, April 28, 2019.
https://www.workingpreacher.org/dear-working-preacher/do-you-love-me ↩︎ - Seth Godin, “A powerful story.” April 26, 2025. ↩︎